Saying ‘no’ in November

Happy November, friends!! A month of thankfulness, turkey & dressing, mac & cheese, and, the best of all, my birthday. ūüôā Just kidding!

I love November because it reminds everyone of all there is to be thankful for. Facebook is flooded with #30daysofthankfulness posts and picture collages of family photos. While I have an endless list of people and things I’m thankful for, I want to do something a little different this November.

This November, I’m going to say ‘no’ to a few things.

I’ve been in a place of self-doubt, feeling less-than-worthy, struggling with anxiety and depression, and¬†drowning in¬†the land of comparison¬†for a while now. In 11 days, I turn 25. My life at 25 is not exactly what I dreamed of ten years ago when people would ask where I saw myself at 25 and I’ve struggled with being OK with that.

I had dreamed of being married, trying to¬†begin a family,¬†living in a cute little house, and being in a marketing career that I loved. I suppose that .75¬† out of¬†4 isn’t too bad, is it?

But the Lord’s plans are always better than our own, even if we don’t quite see it at the time. I believe that, though sometimes I do ask Him to speed it up a bit.

While my friends landed their dream jobs before college graduation, as they got married, and as they started having children, I¬†sat and watched.¬†All while entering the world of ‘dating’ again (which sucks, btw). Naturally, I was thrilled for them. I love seeing¬†the people I love happy, it truly does bring me joy. But at the same time, it caused me to have self-doubt and the dating world didn’t help either. Dating is another story for a different time though.

So this month¬†I’m¬†saying no to allowing self-doubt to creep in, I’m saying no to feeling less-than, and I’m saying no to being negative. While celebrating thankfulness this month, I am choosing to say no to the things that take my thankfulness down a few notches and I invite you to join me.

What will you say ‘no’ to this month?

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